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Weaving the Human Spirit
An old medicine man (actually, he was more of a Coyote Doctor, which is REAL trouble) once told me, "If you're thinking of getting serious about a woman, go meet her mother, because she'll come... More »
David Deida - Exploring Sexual Stages with Buddhists
David Deida is very controversial. I often find him to be quite stuck in all sorts of ways. He can be crude, brutal, and at the same time insightful. Take him or leave him, you... More »
What would have to change for there to be no war?
All the testosteronic aggression needs to be osmosed by consuming passion.....check me other blog today for a fuller discussion. Jon x
The Sacredness In The Male Sexual Experience.
I wanted to offer you all the invitation to stand back a little from the juicy passion dripping from John (Satya Seer)'s blog and examine the nature of the male sexual experience in a less... More »
Check out my blog at TrippLanier.com
So I've been updating my blog over at my site TrippLanier.com . All kinds of stuff -- from David Deida to Kelly Slater to Tim Russert to the fantastic TV show, Top Gear. Check it... More »
Blue Truths
People less o p e n than you... More »
Hillary, Obama, and gender
Last night I was watching Dan Abrams' show on MSNBC (the "Obama station," as my brother likes to call it), when he read a letter that said something to the effect that it is too... More »
Opening From Heart
I subscribe to Tricycle Magazine's "Daily Dharma". I nearly always receive inspiration from them, but sometimes, a particular message shoots through my heart, straight and true. This evening's message was like that; it reminds me... More »
As Fruitless as a Fish
"Waiting for love or doing anything to be loved is as fruitless as a fish swimming in the hope of getting wet. Already, love is who you are. Love is that which is living your... More »
You are already free
You can certainly learn to change things for the better - do a little yoga, maybe, or volunteer to help the homeless. You can also learn to accept things as they are, being fully present... More »
Successfully completing a lesser purpose doesn't feel good very good for very long, because it is simply preparation for advancing toward a greater embodiment of your deeper purpose.
"The amount of consciousness with which you can ravish your woman--the size of your 'spiritual penis,' so to speak--is determined by how fully you have surrendered as openness and love. Practice opening as free being, as unbounded love, even as thoughts come and go, fears clench and pass, and desires ebb and flow."
The word "surrender" is often interpreted as giving up, as weakness, as admitting defeat. Although this is one way to use the word, we will use it in a different way. Surrendering means letting go of your resistance to the total openness of who you are. It means giving up the tension of the little vortex you believe yourself to be and realizing the deep power of the ocean you truly are. It means to open with no boundaries, emotional or physical, so you ease wide beyond any limiting sense of self you might have.
If your purpose is to liberate yourself and others into love and freedom, then you should do whatever magnifies the love and freedom in your life and in the lives of whom your actions affect.
You are not only a man, you are a superior man: a man who does his best to live as love in the world and in his intimacy, a man whose heart remains open and whose truth remains strong...
Good artists are skilled, but great artists convey an immense depth of feeling through their expertise. The same goes for the art of sex. A good lover knows how to make the body sing. But a great lover, a superior lover, evokes a vast choir of bliss.
Anyone who separates being and doing is still enjoying separation.
You'll never get what you really want. All you can do is give what you really want!
You can ravish your woman so deeply that her surrender breaks your heart into light.
Superior Men
Well, i've just come to the awareness that i have many deep and fulfilling relationships with women, but very few with other men. As a gentle heterosexual man, i find myself extremely open and filled... More »






















